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I’m Not Selling Certainty. I’m Living Curiosity.
I have been in business for nearly 27 years, and in all that time I was never selling certainty, nor was I promising certainty, nor did I ever NEED TO do so in order for my clients and myself to absolutely thrive.
All I ever did was live in curiosity, and invite my clients to live in theirs.
Curiosities like:
- What if you could do it differently?
- What if you were the exception to the rule?
- What if you could create your own unique pathway?
- What if you ALREADY are?
- What would honoring that more look like right now?
What that did for them was allow them to step off the beaten track of conventional logic and tactics. And what THAT did, was allow them to become more magnetic to the people who valued them for EXACTLY what they actually were, instead of attracting more people they would have to perform or ‘be someone else’ to impress, and slowly over time becoming something they don’t actually want to be or do in the process.
And what happens when you start doing or having to perform or be what isn’t authentic to you? Your results start reflecting your unhappiness.
It is inevitable, and it is BEAUTIFUL (!) because it means you’re always so much on your own side that you won’t let yourself succeed at anything you can’t be your full self in.
It means you will not allow more money, sales or success that does not support who you actually ARE. Even if a part of you wants to grind towards that success at all costs 😂😅 and doesn’t give a damn, believing that THEN you will be able to be yourself when you have the piles of cash and proof of success… the larger part of you will be calm and quiet in the background, with it’s foot on the energetic brakes saying: “No. Not this way. You’ll thank me later.” lol
These curiosities are the keys.
The keys to the life and business you ACTUALLY WANT to live in.
They are the golden thread that I’ve weaved in my business and in my client’s businesses, and they have become open doors in closed door times. They have become the exceptions to the rule, as have I. Because that’s what happens when you question the script instead of just blindly follow it.
Curiosities like:
- what if this wasn’t a lull, but a pause for clarity?
- what if this downturn is an upturn in disguise?
- what if this quiet was an opportunity to more deeply embody who you are?
- what if the collective panic and scarcity is a chance to offer what you’re best at?
- what if you’re exactly the thing that’s most needed? what if you need it just as much?
It is my experience, guiding everyone from people making their first few dollars, to people making multiple millions, that certainty is never required, only the courage to live in continual curiosity.
To open and to KEEP opening to MORE and more of who you are and who you are becoming.
It’s a giant step out of “it’ll be good when I get there” culture, and into “I’m enough and having a good time on my way” culture, which is less a ‘culture’ and more a way of living, where your livelihood is an extension of your BEING, and begins to feel as natural as breathing.
If that sounds impossible, it’s not.
It just requires a radical amount of love and trust like you’ve never maybe allowed yourself to lean into before now. And I hope you’ll allow yourself to do that, if it’s what you’re longing for.
And if you are currently experiencing fear of being left behind, losing what you’ve built, or losing your sense of value and identity in this world…
- what if this is the best thing that’s ever happened to you?
- what if this is the place where you find what’s always been waiting for you?
- what if this is the time where it gets REALLY good in ways you didn’t expect?
I think that’s why Alice In Wonderland has always been my favorite lore 🐇🕳️, because curiosity is a powerful and liberating force, and because I love turning things on their head 😄. lol It is so easy to get stuck in world’s that you believe to be absolutely real and stifling to your soul, only to realize there is a rabbit hole you can go down that would pop you into another one, just like that.
It’s my joy and pleasure to create and leave rabbit holes 🐇🕳️ and world flips 🌀 lying about for people to tumble into, so they can pop out in one that feels more “them” in every single way.
The other night I had a dream that these old vinyl records I had were actually secret black holes that you could take off the record player and throw in the air and they opened a black hole portal where you could meet another version of yourself. I know that sounds very psychedelic or something but I haven’t done those since I was 17! 😂 And even then I only did them a few times, total lightweight…
But the truth is it’s not that complicated or esoteric, the truth is QUESTIONS and CURIOSITIES are the portal, there’s nothing fancy required, it just takes someone to be asking those questions and you taking the time to answer them, which is something that many do not do.
So I’ve made it my livelihood to ask questions and to riddle out answers that become those portals to new dimensions, new versions of you and your success (in every way). Not because that’s what’s needed, but because it’s what I love to do! 😍✨
And if you want to live more of what YOU love to do too, then have a peek around my world of wonderlands and rabbit holes and dive into whatever calls your heart, at sunnichapman.com/work-with-me
Big love sweet pea’s,
xo,
